There
are many good lessons in this rich passage; today we shall see just one – on
compassion.
And a lawyer stood up and put Him to the test,
saying, "Teacher, what shall I do to inherit eternal life?" And He
said to him, "What is written in the Law? How does
it read to you?" And he answered, "YOU SHALL LOVE THE LORD
YOUR GOD WITH ALL YOUR HEART, AND WITH ALL YOUR SOUL, AND WITH ALL YOUR
STRENGTH, AND WITH ALL YOUR MIND; AND YOUR NEIGHBOR AS YOURSELF." And He
said to him, "You have answered correctly; DO THIS
AND YOU WILL LIVE." But wishing to justify himself, he said to
Jesus, "And who is my neighbor?" Jesus replied and said, "A man was going down from Jerusalem to Jericho, and fell among robbers, and they stripped him and beat him, and went away leaving
him half dead. "And by chance a priest was
going down on that road, and when he saw him, he passed by on the other side. "Likewise a Levite also, when he came to the place
and saw him, passed by on the other side. "But
a Samaritan, who was on a journey, came upon him; and when he saw him, he felt
compassion, and came to him and bandaged up his
wounds, pouring oil and wine on them; and he put him on his own beast, and brought him to an inn
and took care of him. "On the next day he
took out two denarii and gave them to the innkeeper and said, 'Take care of
him; and whatever more you spend, when I return I will repay you.' "Which of these three do you think proved to be a
neighbor to the man who fell into the robbers' hands?" And
he said, "The one who showed mercy toward him." Then Jesus said to
him, "Go and do the same."
(Luk 10:25-37 NASB)
Let
us begin with a general observation: the church is not as compassionate as she
once was. Much of this can be laid to the fact that our government structure
has taken over much of this role, calling it welfare. But the Scripture
remains as it is, and we may ask ourselves whether or not things are as they
should be. In doing this we will examine three questions:
- What
is it about compassion which makes it so difficult?
- Why
should we, as Christians, be compassionate?
- How
should we, as Christians, show compassion?
Compassion
is
Risky
The
answer to the first question is fairly obvious: compassion is difficult for us
because it is risky.
- It
is risky in the physical sense. The bandits of this time would often beat
a man like this – and wait for someone else to stop to help him, thus
obtaining another victim. There is the risk of physical danger in
compassion; the guy standing by the road with a cardboard sign just might
be violent. You never know, do you?
- It
is risky in the sense of emotional distance. The Jews and the Samaritans
hated each other. It’s one thing to be compassionate to a friend. It’s
another to be compassionate to someone who is outside our comfort zone.
It “feels funny” to be in contact with someone who doesn’t speak your
language for instance – especially when that person needs help
desperately.
- It
is risky because it implies entanglement – you may get tangled up in someone’s
life. That life may be very different from yours; you may not approve of
that life. “Don’t get involved” is advice that comes from experience.
Getting involved entangles your life with theirs, and that is usually
rather messy. You don’t know how long it will last or what it will cost.
Not knowing is a barrier to compassion. It’s a lot easier to make a
definite, one time donation than it is to be compassionate in person.
Expensive
When
we use the word “expensive,” we usually mean that the cost is (to us) rather
high. That’s the case in compassion as well:
- Note
that the Samaritan puts the man on his own beast, probably a donkey. He
gives up his own transportation and walks while this poor fellow rides.
Compassion may mean that we do without.
- Compassion
almost always has its cash cost. In this instance, two days wages,
perhaps something like $400 in our day. It’s not that we can’t afford it
at all; it’s that it’s big enough to be labeled expensive. That’s
typical of anything worth doing.
- It
may also have its cost in credit! This man told the innkeeper that he
would repay him any additional cost. In our time, that’s like handing him
a credit card. Often enough in compassion we have to say, “I’ll handle
that.” (It’s interesting to note that the innkeeper, probably Jewish,
knew that the Samaritan’s credit was good.)
Heavy
impact – on others
It’s
generally the case that we cannot complete an act of compassion by ourselves;
we need the help of others.
- In
this the innkeeper is involved. He might well ask the Samaritan whether
or not this was an inn or a hospital. I suspect that he knew the
Samaritan to be a regular customer; we put up with a lot for regular
customers. We socially obligate others in our compassion; a real
inconvenience.
- More
commonly, we obligate family and friends. If you don’t think so, what
happens when your daughter brings home a stray cat? (Or a stray person,
for that matter).
- One
impact you may not have considered is the impact on your reputation. To
show compassion in a socially acceptable way (for example, giving to an
orphanage like the one we support) usually enhances your reputation. But
if you do it in a strange way (there are dozens of examples, but let’s
suppose you bail out a friend arrested for soliciting a prostitute) you
can definitely acquire a reputation for doing strange things.
Why?
So
with such a price tag to it, why would a Christian do such a thing? After all,
we’re not crazy, are we?
Blessed
are the merciful
- For
they shall sleep nights. Most of us still have some conscience left; to
fail to show compassion leaves a sting. Those who are merciful,
especially in this matter of compassion, go through life with a gentle
heart.
- For
they shall turn enemies into friends. Many have criticized our government’s
rebuilding of Iraq; but let us see it for what it is – an effort to turn
an enemy into a friend. The surest way to destroy your enemy is to turn
him into your friend.
- For
they shall find that God is merciful.
We know this will be the case at the Last Day; it is also the case in
this life as well. God is merciful to those who show mercy; it is in his
character and we will see it if we but look for it.
The
Judgment
It
is well that we review the Scripture:
"But when the Son of Man comes in
His glory, and all the angels with Him, then He will sit on His glorious
throne. "All the nations will be gathered before Him; and He
will separate them from one another, as the shepherd separates the sheep from
the goats; and He will put the sheep on His
right, and the goats on the left. "Then the
King will say to those on His right, 'Come, you who are blessed of My Father,
inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world. 'For I was hungry, and you gave Me something to eat; I was thirsty,
and you gave Me something to drink; I was a stranger, and you invited Me in; naked, and you clothed Me; I was sick, and you visited Me; I
was in prison, and you came to Me.' "Then
the righteous will answer Him, 'Lord, when did we see You hungry, and feed You,
or thirsty, and give You something to drink? 'And when did we
see You a stranger, and invite You in, or naked, and clothe You? 'When did we see You sick, or in prison, and come to You?' "The King will answer and say to them, 'Truly I
say to you, to the extent that you did it to one of these brothers of Mine, even the least of them, you did it to
Me.' "Then He will also say to those on His
left, 'Depart from Me, accursed ones, into the eternal fire which has been
prepared for the devil and his angels; for I was
hungry, and you gave Me nothing to eat; I was thirsty, and you gave Me nothing to drink; I was a stranger, and you did not invite Me in; naked,
and you did not clothe Me; sick, and in prison, and you did not visit Me.' "Then they themselves also will answer, 'Lord,
when did we see You hungry, or thirsty, or a stranger, or naked, or sick, or in
prison, and did not take care of You?' "Then
He will answer them, 'Truly I say to you, to the extent that you did not do it
to one of the least of these, you did not do it to Me.' "These will go away into eternal punishment, but the
righteous into eternal life."
(Mat 25:31-46 NASB)
It
seems clear enough, doesn’t it? Yet there are those inside the church building
who will be among the goats. Just how is that done? How is it that we can
hear the sermons on compassion and yet still miss the point? Here are some
techniques:
- The
first is simple hypocrisy. We sound compassionate, we recommend
compassion to others, we pronounce our wishes of compassion on the poor –
and walk away, feeling blessed by our piety.
- For
those who require some action with it, there is always the path of
rewarding those who deserve it – and calling it compassion. Not all right
actions are compassion.
- The
most common way is this: we have no compassion for the invisible people
of our society. Ask a waitress, a flight attendant, a telephone
operator: all will tell you that ordinary politeness is rare, compassion
(even the stewardess has a bad day) is almost unheard of.
Passing
it on
One
final reason for our compassion is this. God is compassionate to us, a favor
we can never repay. But we can pass that favor on, in imitation of Him.
- If
you think not, remember the parable of the wicked servant?
Our Lord makes it clear he expects God’s compassion to flow through us,
not be bottled up.
- We
need to remember that this is NOT a fair trade. We get the compassion and
mercy of God; those around us get only the compassion and mercy of man.
If it were fair, it would be justice, not mercy.
- The
high point is this: if we are the children of God, we should act like the
children of God – in imitation of our heavenly father, who causes his rain
to fall on the just and the unjust.
How?
Just
how is this compassion to be shown? Is there a style to it? There is indeed.
In
imitation of Christ
Consider
how Christ has shown compassion on us:
So, as those who have been chosen of God, holy
and beloved, put on a heart of compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and
patience; bearing with one another, and forgiving each other, whoever has a
complaint against anyone; just as the Lord forgave you, so also should you.
(Col 3:12-13 NASB)
Let’s
take those style points:
- Kindness.
Oscar the Grouch is not noted for compassion. Those receiving compassion
are often embarrassed that they need it; how much better it is to receive
in kindness, rather than in disapproval.
- Humility.
Compassion does have a tendency to inflate you; remember that only the
grace of God stands between you and needing compassion.
- Patience.
People who need compassion often got that way because of their refusal to
do things God’s way. Sometimes it takes a while for the message to sink
in.
In
practical ways
- Permit
me the example of the poor man’s cloak.
The example pictured here is that of a poor man in desperate need of
money. He borrows from a neighbor – who (naturally) asks for something as
security against the loan. All the man has is his cloak; both garment and
sleeping gear. The lender is cautioned to return the cloak each night –
having compassion on the man who would otherwise shiver in the cold. It
sounds like it voids the purpose of security on the loan; perhaps it
does. Perhaps it makes God security for the loan.
- Of
course, we are to remember that faith without works is dead. Just what
kind of works did you think James was referring to?
- Finally,
as a practical point of fact, we are to do it as the early church did – as
a church community. Often there is no one individual who can render the
compassion needed. This is yet another reason for the church.
Attitude
We
so often have the idea that compassion is to be rendered with that slighting
look over the top of the bifocals. Our Lord disagrees. Indeed, as Paul tells
us:
or he who exhorts, in his exhortation; he who
gives, with liberality; he who leads, with diligence; he who shows mercy, with
cheerfulness.
(Rom 12:8 NASB)
With
cheerfulness? Yes indeed. The early church writer, Chrysostom, explains why.
In his day the church was responsible for all that we would call “welfare”
today. As in the early church, deacons were appointed to handle this task. If
these deacons went about with sober look they soon fell into either cynicism
(these people are all frauds) or anger (these people are so undeserving). But
the cheerful heart immunizes us against such dangers.
Compassion
is to be shown sacrificially. We need to understand that we are working for
the kingdom, and that requires sacrifice on our part. It is a small imitation
of our Lord, who sacrificed himself for us. Go, and do thou likewise.
Finally,
may I suggest the highest form of compassion – the act of devotion? The world
will say it’s crazy; others will ask when this will pay back – but the true
Christian understands compassion to be a reflection of the very heart of
Christ. May our compassion be the perfume we pour on the Master’s feet.